<rss version="2.0" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:wfw="http://wellformedweb.org/CommentAPI/" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" xmlns:sy="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/syndication/" xmlns:slash="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/slash/" xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/"><channel><title>Self Mastery on Stephen Ajulu</title><link>https://ajulu.netlify.app/categories/self-mastery/</link><atom:link href="https://ajulu.netlify.app/categories/self-mastery/feed.xml" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><description>Hello, I'm Stephen Ajulu, a seasoned multidisciplinary tech professional with over a decade of experience. I build impactful solutions using design, tech, and engineering in the pursuit of impact.</description><generator>Hugo -- gohugo.io</generator><language>en-us</language><managingEditor>ajulu.b22uf@aleeas.com (Stephen Ajulu)</managingEditor><webMaster>ajulu.b22uf@aleeas.com (Stephen Ajulu)</webMaster><copyright>Stephen Ajulu.</copyright><lastBuildDate>Mon, 22 Nov 2021 05:26:00 +0300</lastBuildDate><item><title>5 Things Every Man In His 20s Should Do</title><link>https://ajulu.netlify.app/posts/5-things-every-man-in-his-20s-should-do/</link><pubDate>Mon, 22 Nov 2021 05:26:00 +0300</pubDate><guid>https://ajulu.netlify.app/posts/5-things-every-man-in-his-20s-should-do/</guid><description>&lt;p&gt;Hi men!&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Here are 5 things you should do in order to set up your life for success and level up.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;h2 id="1-workout-and-build-your-body"&gt;1. Workout and build your body&lt;/h2&gt;
&lt;p&gt;It goes without saying that self mastery is key to growth.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;So workout, build your body and be physically capable. This alone will separate you from 80% of the planet. Don&amp;rsquo;t become comfortable being unfit and fat.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Adopt a growth mindset. Yes, you might be fat now but as long as you put in consistent effort, i can assure you that by the end of a month, the gains you&amp;rsquo;ll be seeing will shoot up your testosterone and confidence.&lt;/p&gt;</description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi men!</p>
<p>Here are 5 things you should do in order to set up your life for success and level up.</p>
<h2 id="1-workout-and-build-your-body">1. Workout and build your body</h2>
<p>It goes without saying that self mastery is key to growth.</p>
<p>So workout, build your body and be physically capable. This alone will separate you from 80% of the planet. Don&rsquo;t become comfortable being unfit and fat.</p>
<p>Adopt a growth mindset. Yes, you might be fat now but as long as you put in consistent effort, i can assure you that by the end of a month, the gains you&rsquo;ll be seeing will shoot up your testosterone and confidence.</p>
<p>Plus, you&rsquo;ll be better capable of attracting that girl you think is beyond your level. Think about it!</p>
<h2 id="2-chase-success-and-fulfillment-over-women">2. Chase success and fulfillment over women</h2>
<p>Look, these girls aren&rsquo;t going anywhere. Plus a recent study found that they want the top 10% of men. So instead of chasing a girl who might dump you for that rich bad boy. Become one yourself. Grind and hustle.</p>
<p>Build a set of marketable skills or better yet work on your own business. Build your dreams. You won&rsquo;t regret it. Plus girls will be all over you once you succeed.</p>
<p>So work on yourself. Work on your dreams.</p>
<p>Now, I&rsquo;m not saying &ldquo;Stop looking, stop dating&rdquo;. What I&rsquo;m saying is let success be your primary goal.</p>
<p>My advice is this. Write down 5 things that are most valuable to you.</p>
<p>Here are mine, if you&rsquo;d like an example.</p>
<ol>
<li>God</li>
<li>Family</li>
<li>Wealth and Health(myself)</li>
<li>Friends</li>
<li>Women</li>
</ol>
<p>Most of these women are hypergamous. So stop chasing them all over the place and start working primarily on you.</p>
<p>Chris Brown wasn&rsquo;t kidding, &ldquo;These hoes ain&rsquo;t loyal&rdquo;.</p>
<p>Advice: if you&rsquo;ve got a girl and a kid, please do a DNA test. In a recent study, it was found that 9 out of 25 men are raising children that are not their own. To make this worse, most of these women knew the kid wasn&rsquo;t there&rsquo;s but because they needed a beta/simp who would provide, they lied. So before adding your name on the birth certificate, before marrying. If you have a kid with a girl. GET A DNA TEST! If you found out the kid isn&rsquo;t yours, i suggest you leave but that decision is up to you.</p>
<p>And you better not forget to INVEST your money. I post articles for beginners on how to invest. There&rsquo;s cryptocurrencies, stocks, NFTs, ETFs, bonds, bills, real estate and more. Pick some, research and invest. Simple</p>
<h2 id="3-seek-god">3. Seek God</h2>
<p>Now, the only reason this is no 3 is because, i didn&rsquo;t structure this list but men you need to seek God. You need spirituality.</p>
<h2 id="4-createjoin-a-tribe">4. Create/join a tribe</h2>
<p>Guys, no man is an island, no man stands alone. I have to admit that i am having issues with this, seeing that i am an introvert with social anxiety but i am doing my best. So should you. And hey don&rsquo;t just join any group. Join a tribe of Like Minded Individuals. Ask yourself this &ldquo;Where do i see myself in the next 10/20 years?&rdquo; then join a tribe of people with a similar answer or similar values or even better join a tribe of people who are already where you want to be.</p>
<h2 id="5-never-stop-learning">5. Never stop learning</h2>
<p>Learn more about:</p>
<ol>
<li>Business</li>
<li>Redpill</li>
<li>Masculinity</li>
<li>Investing</li>
<li>Marketable skills</li>
<li>Female psychology</li>
<li>Money and Wealth</li>
<li>Nutrition for men(meat and eggs)</li>
<li>Solving problems</li>
<li>New technologies</li>
</ol>
<p>There&rsquo;s so much you can learn and do. Especially in this information age. Just do it.</p>
<p>Here comes a bonus:</p>
<h2 id="6-journalwrite">6. Journal/Write</h2>
<p>Please men, keep a journal. All great men, men of renowned wrote journals. Write down your thoughts in the morning and evening.</p>
<p>The mental clarity this will give you will leave you astonished wondering why you didn&rsquo;t start early.</p>
<h3 id="what-is-journaling-you">What is journaling you?</h3>
<p>Journaling is the writing down of thoughts for present reflection and future reference.</p>
<p>Journaling allows you to organize your thoughts, document your goals, make life decisions, and even heal from past traumas. It’s truly a powerful tool that when incorporated into your regular routine can provide numerous benefits.</p>
<h3 id="why-should-men-journal">Why Should Men Journal?</h3>
<p>Although many men may scoff at the thought of keeping a journal, many of the greatest visionaries in history had journals: Leonardo Da Vinci, Albert Einstein, Nikola Tesla, and Ernest Hemingway to name a few. Not to mention the numerous benefits from journaling are well-documented.</p>
<h3 id="benefits-of-journaling">Benefits of journaling</h3>
<p>Here are some benefits of journaling</p>
<ul>
<li>Manages stress</li>
<li>Gives you immortality</li>
<li>Allows introspection and reflection</li>
<li>Boosts your mood</li>
<li>Improves memory</li>
<li>Reduces symptoms of anxiety and depression</li>
</ul>
<p>Anyway guys, that&rsquo;s it for now. For those who learn and implement this, &ldquo;Greatness is coming&rdquo;.</p>
<p>Before i go:</p>
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<p>Have a great day.</p>
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