Why do I plan to become an outlier male?

1. I want my family to live a comfortable life
2. I want to live a better life
3. I want to have an abundance of top-quality women(Surface level)
4. I want to be healthy and strong
5. I want to be financially free and have time freedom
6. I want to pursue my genuine curiosity
7. I want to enter a room and have people look. A king’s presence.
8. I want my lineage to be safe and secure
9. I just want to be better. I want to be at the top. I want to be better than other men. I want to have an abundance.
10. I want to live a life well-lived.

There are different pillars of a man’s life that need to be built up, these are:

1. Health/Body: Be in shape, healthy and active. Hormone, sleep, diet, and other optimizations
2. Wealth/Money/Resources/Assets: Have resources and money. Investments. Crypto. Stocks. Real Estate.
3. Relationships: Be good to my family. Build a good circle of primarily male friends who have similar goals of reaching the top. Cutting out untrustworthy friends. Building a do-or-die brotherhood who help each other. Finding a good woman. Leading your family.
4. Faith: Get closer to God
5. Mind: Amass knowledge. Practice. Learn skills. Learn new languages. Fix mindset. Reading books.
6. Style: Dress better. Smell Better. Look freaking great.
7. Others: Body language, experience, game, stoicism, leadership, accountability, responsibility, frame control, emotional control, sexual interactions, looks maxing, personal branding, fighting, manly skills & more
8. Life setup (Male Advantage years 25 -40): Getting things in place to look, feel and be high value e.g. nice car, nice house, nice everything.

So, to begin, I’ll focus on 3 things. I won’t do more than 3 things at a time because then the transformation will be exhaustive and I’ll quit mid-way. I’ll only do more when I can.

My first focus will be on Health/Body, Mind & Faith/Spirituality. But along the way, I’ll incorporate Others into the plan.

We have 5 years. I’ve broken this into:

Year 1 & 2: Body, Mind, and Spirit

Year 3 & 4: Wealth, Style & Others

Year 5: Life setup & Relationships

Here’s how I think about it.

You can’t have a nice house and a hot chick if you don’t have money or relationship skills, you can’t have money. if you don’t have the skills.

Now, of course, you can be fat with mental issues and still be rich or you can have a nice body but still be broke. The key is not 100% of all these things but 70% even 60% across the board.

Now life setup and relationships are last, not because you should avoid your family or not set up your life well but rather because I believe you’ll have more time and resources in the future that you can use to set them up better, let’s take life setup, for example, it requires money. Relationships require time.

You don’t want a situation where you are busy chasing girls while doing the above, it will likely end in a catastrophe. You can also decide to go the road of faking a good lifestyle but people will smell it on you that you don’t have half of what you brag about on social media.

You should first build your body, this will allow you to “focus” on building the mind all while you are connecting to your spirituality. A healthy body + a healthy spirituality = an even healthier mind. You need all these pieces to go to step 2 which is where we primarily focus on making money, improving style and more. Once you are fit, clothes fit you better. And with the halo effect + hypergamy to your advantage, it becomes a done deal.

The Bible is an amazing book that can build the mind as well as your spirituality.

These three things are connected because they form you. No one can take your knowledge, skills, and strength from you of course except God.

But man can take your wealth, your clothes, your life setup, your cars, your girl and even destroy your relationships. That’s why you need to build YOU first then build all the others because then you already have the skills, the knowledge, the experience, the body, the mind and the spirit, building whatever is stolen is easier. Plus once you follow this systematically, who would even dare try to take your stuff or your girl. You’ll be rich, jacked, know how taekwondo or something and have The Almighty God by your side. No one will want to fuck with you because you are UNSTOPPABLE. This is what girls love in a man. Ambition. Wealth. Determination. Prespicacity as Andrew Tate, the top G says. These are the benefits of following this order.

Another thing about this is this order is the best way to build a foundation.

I’ll go on this “hero’s journey” with you. The goal or rather the light at the end of the tunnel is YOU being the top g, having time and financial freedom with an abundance of resources.

In the next post, I’ll talk a bit about who I am, who an outlier male is, and why we should strive to become like him. ({ADONIS} in Hamza’s voice)

In the next post after that, I’ll cover my plans for body, mind, and spirit, the foundational pillars. And, by the way, you don’t have to be a Christian to follow these. In spirituality, for example, you can meditate. I am however going to write it the way I’m doing it.

Remember the goal is to become a truly top-tier man by the time 5 years a done.

For those who want to join in on this. By next week, I’ll have set up a group where we can keep each other accountable and help each other.

Now remember, we are all beginners, even me. I don’t know more than you and I’m not in a better position than you. I just have good mentors and have stolen bits and pieces from their word and have made this so you don’t have to watch 100 self improvement videos and read 10 books. So relax, let’s take this step by step.

Thank you and have a good one.

P.S. Kindly note that this program is mainly targeted toward men but women are allowed to join. Also, while the program is free the group will be paid in order to avoid spam and disrespectful people from joining. The benefits of this group are endless. I’ll talk about the group soon. The platforms are either Discord or Telegram.

This will eventually become paid once we are done with the first section, only those who join now, within the first 2 years since the posting of this article will get in for free.

1. Has a good relationship with her father: I always say this, if she can’t respect her father what makes you think she will respect you? Does she speak highly of him? What does the family look like? If she has a good relationship with her father then that’s great.
2. She’s nurturing. Does she take care of you when you are sick?
3. She stays away from drama and gossip
4. Doesn’t use social media frequently unless she’s using it for work/business
5. She’s positive and cheerful about life
6. She has a purpose that she’s pursuing but not a “boss-girl/boss-lady”
7. She takes ownership of the choices/decisions in her life. She’s accountable.
8. She’s good with money. She knows where to cut, save and invest. She doesn’t constantly ask for money for stupid stuff.
9. She has a low body/notch count. Women who’ve been with 50, 60, 100+ guys can’t form a solid bond with a man. 50 is worse than 10, 10 is worse than 1. So focus on low body/notch count. She’s more likely to respect you and contribute to a relationship if she has a low body count.
10. She’s pleasant and doesn’t nag you persistently
11. She encourages you and supports your purpose
12. She’s active and/or exercises.
13. She’s good in the kitchen. She has to have culinary skills. Knows how to cook.
14. She’s tidy, clean, and cleans/tidies up unprompted consistently
15. She likes kids and treats them sweetly
16. Doesn’t talk to multiple guys constantly
17. She respects you and is willing to sacrifice certain things for the betterment of the relationship
18. She’s submissive
19. She brings solutions to your life, she’s a compliment in your life, is useful, and brings something to the table
20. She’s collaborative

1. Too many male friends and male best friends
2. Calls you and/or other men “bro”
3. Calls herself “Queen”, “Bitch”, “Princess” and/or “Brat”
4. Heavily tattooed and pierced
5. Dislikes her father/daddy issues
6. Is a feminist
7. Earns more than you - Not necessarily a red flag. But a word of caution. Make sure you earn more, this ties in with the next point
8. Is older than you - if she’s younger it will be easier for her to respect you vs vice-versa
9. Is fat - If she’s fat and is comfortable being fat, she will have issues with childbirth. Not to mention her hormones are messed up and she’s likely very moody.
10. Has kids from different fathers - Do I really need to tell you why this is bad? The only time this is understandable is if she’s been widowed multiple times. But this in itself is also a red flag. She could be a “black widow spider”.
11. Has kids, period - Unless widowed. Simply because you will have the responsibility of taking care of the kids but you won’t be able to discipline the kids
12. Is unhappy and unlucky - If laughter and yawning are contagious, then guess what? Being unhappy and unlucky are too. There are those you can help but generally, most women prefer not being changed by a man.
13. Always negative - A person dear to me calls them “People with a Ph.D. (Pull him Down)”. Negativity is contagious.
14. Keeps men from her past around - This is a big red flag. Why would you keep someone you ended a relationship with around?
15. Poor with money - It will be your money that she will mismanage.
16. Is violent - Unless you like to be hit by a woman like a submissive beta. Stay away.
17. Likes to party too much - Not a good sign.
18. Doesn’t respect you - If a woman doesn’t respect you she will cheat on you. Simple as that.
19. Big notch/body counts - A woman who has been with multiple men CAN NOT be monogamous. It’s impossible. She has formed multiple soul ties with men and is therefore unable to form a solid bond with a single man. Be very careful with these types. They will cheat on you multiple times and not feel guilty. Stay away especially if she lost her virginity while she was very young unless she was raped.
20. Very active on social media posting sexy or somewhat sexy pics - This means she’s looking for someone else.
21. Bonus: Is into astrology and new age beliefs

Sometimes all a man needs is for you to be the type of woman God created you to be in the first place: A HELPER & SUPPORTER!

Life is hard as it is. We constantly have to fight demons that sometimes even you aren’t aware of. Don’t spend his money unnecessarily. Don’t nag. Don’t cheat. Be his helper and cheerleader. In fact, I’d suggest you be wise. Telling him “Hey daddy, saw this amazing plot near the road, it has the potential to become worth something great”.

And no, most men don’t care too much about your degree or how much money you make unless you make more than him or he’s broke or he wants to use you.

They just want a beautiful, attractive, and feminine woman who can cook, clean, support, and have good sex with. That’s really it and sometimes that’s enough to keep a man happy and a happy man is a faithful and committed man!

Strive to be that good woman he can be proud of. Also about that cookie jar, please ration it. Don’t forget things wear and tear.

Final note: There are some great men out there. You just have to rethink what you want and shift your focus. Don’t stay with an abusive man unless of course, you like the abuse(You BDSM loving ladies, you!). Don’t stay with a bad man either. Men only change for the right one! If he isn’t changing his ways, move on.

And kindly tell me your thoughts down below in the comments!

If you feel insulted or triggered, I’d also like to hear from you too. Why are you triggered? What can remedy that? Are you sure you are speaking honestly?

Remember the same way, women judge men based on height, fitness, and financial status, men judge women based on health, problematic scale, and beauty.

I’ll just randomly throw the word “double standards” here.

Have a great day ladies!