<rss version="2.0" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:wfw="http://wellformedweb.org/CommentAPI/" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" xmlns:sy="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/syndication/" xmlns:slash="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/slash/" xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/"><channel><title>Gentlemen on Stephen Ajulu</title><link>https://ajulu.netlify.app/tags/gentlemen/</link><atom:link href="https://ajulu.netlify.app/tags/gentlemen/feed.xml" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><description>Hello, I'm Stephen Ajulu, a seasoned multidisciplinary tech professional with over a decade of experience. I build impactful solutions using design, tech, and engineering in the pursuit of impact.</description><generator>Hugo -- gohugo.io</generator><language>en-us</language><managingEditor>ajulu.b22uf@aleeas.com (Stephen Ajulu)</managingEditor><webMaster>ajulu.b22uf@aleeas.com (Stephen Ajulu)</webMaster><copyright>Stephen Ajulu.</copyright><lastBuildDate>Sun, 19 Dec 2021 06:28:00 +0300</lastBuildDate><item><title>How To Increase Your Testosterone</title><link>https://ajulu.netlify.app/posts/how-to-increase-your-testosterone/</link><pubDate>Sun, 19 Dec 2021 06:28:00 +0300</pubDate><guid>https://ajulu.netlify.app/posts/how-to-increase-your-testosterone/</guid><description>&lt;p&gt;Hello guys, how are you doing? It&amp;rsquo;s alright!&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Testosterone is the lifeblood for men. Low testosterone can impact all areas of your life. You&amp;rsquo;ll have depression, become unable to get it up, lose ambition, become dull, have low libido, low mental performance, low memory, low metabolism, and the list goes on.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Today I want to cover how you can increase testosterone and feel GREAT! Feel masculine.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Simple steps. No bullsh*t. Coming from a guy who had hypogonadism.&lt;/p&gt;</description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hello guys, how are you doing? It&rsquo;s alright!</p>
<p>Testosterone is the lifeblood for men. Low testosterone can impact all areas of your life. You&rsquo;ll have depression, become unable to get it up, lose ambition, become dull, have low libido, low mental performance, low memory, low metabolism, and the list goes on.</p>
<p>Today I want to cover how you can increase testosterone and feel GREAT! Feel masculine.</p>
<p>Simple steps. No bullsh*t. Coming from a guy who had hypogonadism.</p>
<p>First, get your levels checked. It&rsquo;s a simple blood test. Remember to check FREE TESTOSTERONE. Relatively inexpensive, depending on where you get it done.</p>
<ol>
<li><strong>Eat more meat and eggs</strong> - Especially organic grass-fed fatty beef and organic eggs. I won&rsquo;t go into the bro-science here as I believe this deserves its own article, which I&rsquo;m working on. Just eat more meat and eggs. Grass-Fed Beef is one of the most nutritionally dense food on the planet plus it has zinc and fatty acids. Remember testosterone synthesis requires cholesterol! Even the end product: testosterone is for a lack of a better word &ldquo;oily&rdquo;. Let proteins make up half your plate. Organ meats are even better especially the liver. If you are feeling adventurous, eat the balls too!</li>
<li><strong>Reduce running. Do sprints</strong> - I respect the runners out there but scientific studies have shown that sprinting can increase testosterone by 40%. So do regular sprints.</li>
<li><strong>Lift heavy things</strong> - Lifting heavy weights/things has been shown to boost testosterone considerably. It&rsquo;s why gym-goers are so muscular(Testosterone is vital in muscle building). I&rsquo;d suggest compound workouts that hit multiple muscles and muscle groups at the same time. Remember you don&rsquo;t have to go to the gym to build muscle. There are bodyweight exercises and random household objects e.g that 10 liter bottled water or that heavy shopping bag.</li>
<li><strong>Get some sun, son!</strong> - Red light/infrared has been shown to boost testosterone by almost 60%. Plus Vitamin D is a requirement for testosterone synthesis. Get some sun and while you are at it sun your genitals/balls. This will drive up that percentage even more. Remember consistency is key. Just make sure you don&rsquo;t get your little friends too hot as I&rsquo;m sure you know high heat kills sperms.</li>
<li><strong>Cold showers</strong> - There&rsquo;s a reason why your 2 little friends hang on the outside. They can&rsquo;t take the hit(sorry I meant heat but you know). Plus studies show that planned and timed exposure to stress(especially the cold) is, actually good for you. Men were meant to dominate. The more good things that stress you short term the better. You don&rsquo;t want constant stress just a timed exposure. Constant stress leads to an increase in cortisol and that actually decreases testosterone.</li>
<li><strong>Lose weight/fat</strong> - Especially around your midsection. Fat has something called &ldquo;aromatase&rdquo; that actually turns testosterone into estrogen and that is the worst thing that can happen to a man. Estrogen is fine in very low levels. Trust me, you don&rsquo;t want this increasing. Lose weight bro! Build muscle. Muscle actually has the reverse effect. Yes everyone has abs but they are muscle, train them. Sprinting may help but you might have to start with running.</li>
<li><strong>Avoid Soy, Phylates, BPA, and anything that starts with &ldquo;Benzo&rdquo; in your products</strong></li>
<li><strong>Cut out simple carbohydrates</strong>, replace them with complex carbohydrates and reduce carbs in general</li>
<li><strong>Avoid sugar at all costs</strong> - I&rsquo;ll cover why in an upcoming article.</li>
<li><strong>Avoid processed food, &ldquo;vegetable&rdquo; oils, and wheat</strong></li>
<li>Eat the right amount of <strong>dark leafy vegetables</strong> - A good rule of thumb is 1/4 of your plate.</li>
<li><strong>Practice one of the following: Intermittent Fasting, One Meal A Day, One and A Half Meals A Day, or Two Meals A Day.</strong></li>
<li><strong>Finally nofap. Stop masturbating.</strong>  It&rsquo;s reducing your testosterone. Plus it dulls you. The eyes you get when you nofap/nonut is proof that withholding your semen actually increases your testosterone.</li>
<li>Last case scenario: Do <strong>Testosterone Replacement Therapy</strong>. If your levels are very low. It&rsquo;s best to see a doctor, get a test done, and then commence treatment at once.</li>
</ol>
<h3 id="low-t-is-detrimental-to-men-of-all-ages-its-a-silent-killer-fix-it-now-with-these-steps-more-t--better-life">Low T is detrimental to men of all ages. It&rsquo;s a silent killer. Fix it now with these steps. More T = Better life</h3>
<p>Have a great day men!</p>
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&lt;li&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Physical Attraction&lt;/strong&gt; - He must feel physically attracted to you. We first fall in love with what we see. And no I&amp;rsquo;m not suggesting you go for butt lifts and apply excessive makeup. Just do you, look good. If you are alone, show some skin. Do the old &amp;ldquo;picking up my scarf/handkerchief to show a bit of my ass&amp;rdquo; thing you used to do. LOSE WEIGHT! Unless he&amp;rsquo;s into Fat-BBW. But seriously lose weight. Look, ladies, I understand but it&amp;rsquo;s always better to improve than to make excuses and stay unhealthy. Can you say you are truly happy with that extra weight? If you are, fine but 9 times out of 10 you are not and you have been lying to yourself that it&amp;rsquo;s okay to be fat. But no it isn&amp;rsquo;t, being overweight predisposes you to so many health risks even childbirth complications. Every man I know wants a healthy wife with whom he can live a long life and have healthy kids who he can see grow up. I&amp;rsquo;m not body shaming you. Lose weight don&amp;rsquo;t make excuses. Choose growth over comfort. Just look good. You don&amp;rsquo;t need a fat ass to get a guy. Stay clean, look healthy, I hear there are exercises that give you hips? Try them. I mean why not? You&amp;rsquo;ll feel good, he&amp;rsquo;ll feel good, everyone wins right?&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Respect&lt;/strong&gt; - Men naturally want to be respected especially by you. We want to dominate.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;strong&gt;To feel wanted&lt;/strong&gt; - Don&amp;rsquo;t hesitate to show him how much you love and want him, especially sexually. Give him the &amp;ldquo;thirst gaze&amp;rdquo; sometimes. Just don&amp;rsquo;t be needy and clingy. There are plenty of ways you can do this without being insufferable.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Loyalty&lt;/strong&gt; - You know cheating hurts especially if you are truly committed. It hurts. So why put him through that for nothing. Just stay loyal or end the relationship. It&amp;rsquo;s not asking too much. Stop entertaining the countless men who constantly text you. &amp;ldquo;Curve them niggars&amp;rdquo;. Keep things minimal with that male &amp;ldquo;best&amp;rdquo; friend. Avoid going out with men even if they are your friends. I&amp;rsquo;ll tell you this for free, that male best friend + countless others definitely want to bang you. Without a doubt. So does almost every single male friend you have. Men and Women can&amp;rsquo;t be friends. It&amp;rsquo;s impossible. Unless the guys are effeminate, beta or gay.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Support&lt;/strong&gt; - Not monetary support unless he&amp;rsquo;s having financial difficulties. But you know, emotional, spiritual(Pray for him), and mental support. I mean at the end of a stressful day kind of support. Let him find food is ready, no quarrels, house clean, you looking good with a big smile on your face. Hug him. Ask him how his day went. It&amp;rsquo;s the little things that matter. Help him take his tie and socks off and serve him. Then &amp;ldquo;serve&amp;rdquo; him some more, if you know what I mean. Don&amp;rsquo;t be another challenge he has to conquer. Don&amp;rsquo;t be naggy. If there&amp;rsquo;s an issue, find an appropriate time, sit down with him and air it out like the civil adults you are. Don&amp;rsquo;t raise your voice. If he&amp;rsquo;s in a bad mood, schedule it for another time. Unless it&amp;rsquo;s urgent.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Femininity&lt;/strong&gt; - No man wants another &amp;ldquo;man&amp;rdquo; in his house unless he&amp;rsquo;s gay so stop with these &amp;ldquo;what a man can do, a woman can do better&amp;rdquo;, &amp;ldquo;I am the boss bitch&amp;rdquo; and &amp;ldquo;I am better than you&amp;rdquo; attitudes. Sure there are things you can do better but be humble about it. Be humble and submissive. This doesn&amp;rsquo;t make you less awesome, in fact being feminine and submissive is what will make him proud to have you. It&amp;rsquo;s a HUGE turn-on. Men love to be dominant. It&amp;rsquo;s the testosterone coursing through our veins. So don&amp;rsquo;t shy away from being feminine.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ol&gt;
&lt;h4 id="sometimes-all-a-man-needs-is-for-you-to-be-the-type-of-woman-god-created-you-to-be-in-the-first-place-a-helper--supporter"&gt;Sometimes all a man needs is for you to be the type of woman God created you to be in the first place: A HELPER &amp;amp; SUPPORTER!&lt;/h4&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Life is hard as it is. We constantly have to fight demons that sometimes even you aren&amp;rsquo;t aware of. Don&amp;rsquo;t spend his money unnecessarily. Don&amp;rsquo;t nag. Don&amp;rsquo;t cheat. Be his helper and cheerleader. In fact, I&amp;rsquo;d suggest you be wise. Telling him &amp;ldquo;Hey daddy, saw this amazing plot near the road, it has the potential to become worth something great&amp;rdquo;.&lt;/p&gt;</description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<ol>
<li><strong>Physical Attraction</strong> - He must feel physically attracted to you. We first fall in love with what we see. And no I&rsquo;m not suggesting you go for butt lifts and apply excessive makeup. Just do you, look good. If you are alone, show some skin. Do the old &ldquo;picking up my scarf/handkerchief to show a bit of my ass&rdquo; thing you used to do. LOSE WEIGHT! Unless he&rsquo;s into Fat-BBW. But seriously lose weight. Look, ladies, I understand but it&rsquo;s always better to improve than to make excuses and stay unhealthy. Can you say you are truly happy with that extra weight? If you are, fine but 9 times out of 10 you are not and you have been lying to yourself that it&rsquo;s okay to be fat. But no it isn&rsquo;t, being overweight predisposes you to so many health risks even childbirth complications. Every man I know wants a healthy wife with whom he can live a long life and have healthy kids who he can see grow up. I&rsquo;m not body shaming you. Lose weight don&rsquo;t make excuses. Choose growth over comfort. Just look good. You don&rsquo;t need a fat ass to get a guy. Stay clean, look healthy, I hear there are exercises that give you hips? Try them. I mean why not? You&rsquo;ll feel good, he&rsquo;ll feel good, everyone wins right?</li>
<li><strong>Respect</strong> - Men naturally want to be respected especially by you. We want to dominate.</li>
<li><strong>To feel wanted</strong> - Don&rsquo;t hesitate to show him how much you love and want him, especially sexually. Give him the &ldquo;thirst gaze&rdquo; sometimes. Just don&rsquo;t be needy and clingy. There are plenty of ways you can do this without being insufferable.</li>
<li><strong>Loyalty</strong> - You know cheating hurts especially if you are truly committed. It hurts. So why put him through that for nothing. Just stay loyal or end the relationship. It&rsquo;s not asking too much. Stop entertaining the countless men who constantly text you. &ldquo;Curve them niggars&rdquo;. Keep things minimal with that male &ldquo;best&rdquo; friend. Avoid going out with men even if they are your friends. I&rsquo;ll tell you this for free, that male best friend + countless others definitely want to bang you. Without a doubt. So does almost every single male friend you have. Men and Women can&rsquo;t be friends. It&rsquo;s impossible. Unless the guys are effeminate, beta or gay.</li>
<li><strong>Support</strong> - Not monetary support unless he&rsquo;s having financial difficulties. But you know, emotional, spiritual(Pray for him), and mental support. I mean at the end of a stressful day kind of support. Let him find food is ready, no quarrels, house clean, you looking good with a big smile on your face. Hug him. Ask him how his day went. It&rsquo;s the little things that matter. Help him take his tie and socks off and serve him. Then &ldquo;serve&rdquo; him some more, if you know what I mean. Don&rsquo;t be another challenge he has to conquer. Don&rsquo;t be naggy. If there&rsquo;s an issue, find an appropriate time, sit down with him and air it out like the civil adults you are. Don&rsquo;t raise your voice. If he&rsquo;s in a bad mood, schedule it for another time. Unless it&rsquo;s urgent.</li>
<li><strong>Femininity</strong> - No man wants another &ldquo;man&rdquo; in his house unless he&rsquo;s gay so stop with these &ldquo;what a man can do, a woman can do better&rdquo;, &ldquo;I am the boss bitch&rdquo; and &ldquo;I am better than you&rdquo; attitudes. Sure there are things you can do better but be humble about it. Be humble and submissive. This doesn&rsquo;t make you less awesome, in fact being feminine and submissive is what will make him proud to have you. It&rsquo;s a HUGE turn-on. Men love to be dominant. It&rsquo;s the testosterone coursing through our veins. So don&rsquo;t shy away from being feminine.</li>
</ol>
<h4 id="sometimes-all-a-man-needs-is-for-you-to-be-the-type-of-woman-god-created-you-to-be-in-the-first-place-a-helper--supporter">Sometimes all a man needs is for you to be the type of woman God created you to be in the first place: A HELPER &amp; SUPPORTER!</h4>
<p>Life is hard as it is. We constantly have to fight demons that sometimes even you aren&rsquo;t aware of. Don&rsquo;t spend his money unnecessarily. Don&rsquo;t nag. Don&rsquo;t cheat. Be his helper and cheerleader. In fact, I&rsquo;d suggest you be wise. Telling him &ldquo;Hey daddy, saw this amazing plot near the road, it has the potential to become worth something great&rdquo;.</p>
<p>And no, most men don&rsquo;t care too much about your degree or how much money you make unless you make more than him or he&rsquo;s broke or he wants to use you.</p>
<h4 id="they-just-want-a-beautiful-attractive-and-feminine-woman-who-can-cook-clean-support-and-have-good-sex-with-thats-really-it-and-sometimes-thats-enough-to-keep-a-man-happy-and-a-happy-man-is-a-faithful-and-committed-man">They just want a beautiful, attractive, and feminine woman who can cook, clean, support, and have good sex with. That&rsquo;s really it and sometimes that&rsquo;s enough to keep a man happy and a happy man is a faithful and committed man!</h4>
<p>Strive to be that good woman he can be proud of. Also about that cookie jar, please ration it. Don&rsquo;t forget things wear and tear.</p>
<p>Final note: There are some great men out there. You just have to rethink what you want and shift your focus. Don&rsquo;t stay with an abusive man unless of course, you like the abuse(You BDSM loving ladies, you!). Don&rsquo;t stay with a bad man either. Men only change for the right one! If he isn&rsquo;t changing his ways, move on.</p>
<p>And kindly tell me your thoughts down below in the comments!</p>
<p>If you feel insulted or triggered, I&rsquo;d also like to hear from you too. Why are you triggered? What can remedy that? Are you sure you are speaking honestly?</p>
<h4 id="remember-the-same-way-women-judge-men-based-on-height-fitness-and-financial-status-men-judge-women-based-on-health-problematic-scale-and-beauty"><strong>Remember</strong> the same way, women judge men based on height, fitness, and financial status, men judge women based on health, problematic scale, and beauty.</h4>
<p>I&rsquo;ll just randomly throw the word &ldquo;double standards&rdquo; here.</p>
<p>Have a great day ladies!</p>
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