{"version":"https://jsonfeed.org/version/1.1","title":"Stephen Ajulu","home_page_url":"https://ajulu.netlify.app/","feed_url":"https://ajulu.netlify.app/tags/green-flags/feed.json","description":"Hello, I'm Stephen Ajulu, a seasoned multidisciplinary tech professional with over a decade of experience. I build impactful solutions using design, tech, and engineering in the pursuit of impact.","icon":"https://ajulu.netlify.app/images/me.jpg","authors":[{"name":"Stephen Ajulu","url":"https://stephenajulu.com","avatar":"https://ajulu.netlify.app/images/me.jpg"}],"items":[{"id":"https://ajulu.netlify.app/posts/female-green-flags-for-men-interested-in-a-keeper/","url":"https://ajulu.netlify.app/posts/female-green-flags-for-men-interested-in-a-keeper/","title":"Green Flags For Men Interested In A Keeper","summary":"Hello there! How are you? With no second to waste let\u0026rsquo;s jump right in. But before that remember that you have to first put in work on yourself. Improve yourself first. Be worthy of seeking out these high-quality women.\nHas a good relationship with her father: I always say this, if she can\u0026rsquo;t respect her father what makes you think she will respect you? Does she speak highly of him? What does the family look like? If she has a good relationship with her father then that\u0026rsquo;s great. She\u0026rsquo;s nurturing. Does she take care of you when you are sick? She stays away from drama and gossip Doesn\u0026rsquo;t use social media frequently unless she\u0026rsquo;s using it for work/business She\u0026rsquo;s positive and cheerful about life She has a purpose that she\u0026rsquo;s pursuing but not a \u0026ldquo;boss-girl/boss-lady\u0026rdquo; She takes ownership of the choices/decisions in her life. She\u0026rsquo;s accountable. She\u0026rsquo;s good with money. She knows where to cut, save and invest. She doesn\u0026rsquo;t constantly ask for money for stupid stuff. She has a low body/notch count. Women who\u0026rsquo;ve been with 50, 60, 100+ guys can\u0026rsquo;t form a solid bond with a man. 50 is worse than 10, 10 is worse than 1. So focus on low body/notch count. She\u0026rsquo;s more likely to respect you and contribute to a relationship if she has a low body count. She\u0026rsquo;s pleasant and doesn\u0026rsquo;t nag you persistently She encourages you and supports your purpose She\u0026rsquo;s active and/or exercises. She\u0026rsquo;s good in the kitchen. She has to have culinary skills. Knows how to cook. She\u0026rsquo;s tidy, clean, and cleans/tidies up unprompted consistently She likes kids and treats them sweetly Doesn\u0026rsquo;t talk to multiple guys constantly She respects you and is willing to sacrifice certain things for the betterment of the relationship She\u0026rsquo;s submissive She brings solutions to your life, she\u0026rsquo;s a compliment in your life, is useful, and brings something to the table She\u0026rsquo;s collaborative ","content_html":"\u003cp\u003eHello there! How are you? With no second to waste let\u0026rsquo;s jump right in. But before that remember that you have to first put in work on yourself. Improve yourself first. Be worthy of seeking out these high-quality women.\u003c/p\u003e\n\u003col\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eHas a good relationship with her father: I always say this, if she can\u0026rsquo;t respect her father what makes you think she will respect you? Does she speak highly of him? What does the family look like? If she has a good relationship with her father then that\u0026rsquo;s great.\u003c/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eShe\u0026rsquo;s nurturing. Does she take care of you when you are sick?\u003c/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eShe stays away from drama and gossip\u003c/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eDoesn\u0026rsquo;t use social media frequently unless she\u0026rsquo;s using it for work/business\u003c/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eShe\u0026rsquo;s positive and cheerful about life\u003c/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eShe has a purpose that she\u0026rsquo;s pursuing but not a \u0026ldquo;boss-girl/boss-lady\u0026rdquo;\u003c/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eShe takes ownership of the choices/decisions in her life. She\u0026rsquo;s accountable.\u003c/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eShe\u0026rsquo;s good with money. She knows where to cut, save and invest. She doesn\u0026rsquo;t constantly ask for money for stupid stuff.\u003c/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eShe has a low body/notch count. Women who\u0026rsquo;ve been with 50, 60, 100+ guys can\u0026rsquo;t form a solid bond with a man. 50 is worse than 10, 10 is worse than 1. So focus on low body/notch count. She\u0026rsquo;s more likely to respect you and contribute to a relationship if she has a low body count.\u003c/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eShe\u0026rsquo;s pleasant and doesn\u0026rsquo;t nag you persistently\u003c/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eShe encourages you and supports your purpose\u003c/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eShe\u0026rsquo;s active and/or exercises.\u003c/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eShe\u0026rsquo;s good in the kitchen. She has to have culinary skills. Knows how to cook.\u003c/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eShe\u0026rsquo;s tidy, clean, and cleans/tidies up unprompted consistently\u003c/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eShe likes kids and treats them sweetly\u003c/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eDoesn\u0026rsquo;t talk to multiple guys constantly\u003c/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eShe respects you and is willing to sacrifice certain things for the betterment of the relationship\u003c/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eShe\u0026rsquo;s submissive\u003c/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eShe brings solutions to your life, she\u0026rsquo;s a compliment in your life, is useful, and brings something to the table\u003c/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eShe\u0026rsquo;s collaborative\u003c/li\u003e\n\u003c/ol\u003e\n","date_published":"2022-01-27T13:04:00+03:00","image":"https://ajulu.netlify.app/images/sasha-freemind-nxo2zskhthg-unsplash.jpg","tags":["dating","women","green flags"," red flags"]}]}