{"version":"https://jsonfeed.org/version/1.1","title":"Stephen Ajulu","home_page_url":"https://ajulu.netlify.app/","feed_url":"https://ajulu.netlify.app/tags/introversion/feed.json","description":"Hello, I'm Stephen Ajulu, a seasoned multidisciplinary tech professional with over a decade of experience. I build impactful solutions using design, tech, and engineering in the pursuit of impact.","icon":"https://ajulu.netlify.app/images/me.jpg","authors":[{"name":"Stephen Ajulu","url":"https://stephenajulu.com","avatar":"https://ajulu.netlify.app/images/me.jpg"}],"items":[{"id":"https://ajulu.netlify.app/posts/introversion-sucks-but/","url":"https://ajulu.netlify.app/posts/introversion-sucks-but/","title":"Introversion Sucks, But....","summary":"Hi there, twice in one row, yea! yea!\nBut this is different.\nHere\u0026rsquo;s a brief list of reasons introversion sucks\nYou don\u0026rsquo;t get to make a lot of friends This is a big issue especially for me. I have always felt like I am missing out. Even I know the benefits that come with having friends. To keep it simple. You get to experience a wide variety of emotions and events that you would otherwise not experience. I personally have never gone to a club. There are things I think are mandatory for someone my age to experience even just once.\n","content_html":"\u003cp\u003eHi there, twice in one row, yea! yea!\u003c/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eBut this is different.\u003c/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eHere\u0026rsquo;s a brief list of reasons introversion sucks\u003c/p\u003e\n\u003ch2 id=\"you-dont-get-to-make-a-lot-of-friends\"\u003eYou don\u0026rsquo;t get to make a lot of friends\u003c/h2\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eThis is a big issue especially for me. I have always felt like I am missing out. Even I know the benefits that come with having friends. To keep it simple. You get to experience a wide variety of emotions and events that you would otherwise not experience. I personally have never gone to a club. There are things I think are mandatory for someone my age to experience even just once.\u003c/p\u003e\n\u003ch2 id=\"sitting-alone-can-get-boring\"\u003eSitting alone can get boring\u003c/h2\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eI know this is the whole forte of introverts. I personally rarely get bored, especially if left to my own devices(my imagination and laptop plus some extra room) but it can get boring sometimes where your creative juices are drained.\u003c/p\u003e\n\u003ch2 id=\"it-gets-pretty-lonely\"\u003eIt gets pretty lonely\u003c/h2\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eI can\u0026rsquo;t even begin to explain this to you. It\u0026rsquo;s something I assure you every introvert experiences, especially those I have met.\u003c/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eIt gets pretty lonely.\u003c/p\u003e\n\u003ch2 id=\"it-can-drive-you-nuts\"\u003eIt can drive you nuts\u003c/h2\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eI\u0026rsquo;m joking, but am i 🤔\u003c/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eI think this is a pretty exhaustive list, won\u0026rsquo;t you say.\u003c/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eI\u0026rsquo;m not complaining. It can be good to just be by yourself but sometimes you wish you were extroverted. I am an INTP/INFP(50% Feeling 50% Thinking) I experience these moments and I find myself wishing that I was more extroverted, that I had more friends but these thoughts will always exist. I love being by myself. It can be fun! but I also wish I could hang out with friends.\u003c/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eThose are my reasons why being an introvert sucks but can actually be a great thing!\u003c/p\u003e\n\u003ch3 id=\"everyone-shameless-plug-below-\"\u003eEveryone! 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Wish me luck and kindly post what you\u0026rsquo;d like me to cover in the comment section.\u003c/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eThank you, everyone, have a nice day!\u003c/p\u003e\n","date_published":"2021-06-26T18:30:00+03:00","image":"https://ajulu.netlify.app/images/introversion-sucks-but.png","tags":["mental health","introversion","introvert"]}]}