{"version":"https://jsonfeed.org/version/1.1","title":"Stephen Ajulu","home_page_url":"https://ajulu.netlify.app/","feed_url":"https://ajulu.netlify.app/tags/women/feed.json","description":"Hello, I'm Stephen Ajulu, a seasoned multidisciplinary tech professional with over a decade of experience. I build impactful solutions using design, tech, and engineering in the pursuit of impact.","icon":"https://ajulu.netlify.app/images/me.jpg","authors":[{"name":"Stephen Ajulu","url":"https://stephenajulu.com","avatar":"https://ajulu.netlify.app/images/me.jpg"}],"items":[{"id":"https://ajulu.netlify.app/posts/shocking-truth-revealed-why-fertility-is-dropping-at-an-alarming-rate-in-both-males-and-females/","url":"https://ajulu.netlify.app/posts/shocking-truth-revealed-why-fertility-is-dropping-at-an-alarming-rate-in-both-males-and-females/","title":"Shocking Truth Revealed: Why Fertility is Dropping at an Alarming Rate in","summary":"How and Why Fertility is Dropping At An Alarming Rate in Both Males and Females Amongst The Human Species As human beings, we rely on our reproductive health to continue the legacy of our species. However, over the last few decades, there has been a worrying trend in the decline of fertility rates in both men and women. In this article, we will explore the reasons behind this alarming phenomenon and what can be done to address it.\n","content_html":"\u003ch2 id=\"how-and-why-fertility-is-dropping-at-an-alarming-rate-in-both-males-and-females-amongst-the-human-species\"\u003eHow and Why Fertility is Dropping At An Alarming Rate in Both Males and Females Amongst The Human Species\u003c/h2\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eAs human beings, we rely on our reproductive health to continue the legacy of our species. However, over the last few decades, there has been a worrying trend in the decline of fertility rates in both men and women. In this article, we will explore the reasons behind this alarming phenomenon and what can be done to address it.\u003c/p\u003e\n\u003ch3 id=\"understanding-fertility\"\u003eUnderstanding Fertility\u003c/h3\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eBefore we delve into the reasons behind the decline in fertility rates, let\u0026rsquo;s first understand what fertility is. Fertility refers to a person\u0026rsquo;s ability to conceive a child. In women, fertility is determined by the ovaries, which produce and release eggs. In men, fertility is determined by the testes, which produce and release sperm.\u003c/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eFertility rates are determined by the number of live births per woman of reproductive age (usually between 15-49 years of age). According to the World Health Organization (WHO), a fertility rate of 2.1 is required to maintain a stable population.\u003c/p\u003e\n\u003ch3 id=\"declining-fertility-rates\"\u003eDeclining Fertility Rates\u003c/h3\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eOver the last few decades, there has been a significant decline in fertility rates in both men and women. In fact, according to a study published in the journal Human Reproduction Update, between 1973 and 2011, sperm counts in men from North America, Europe, Australia, and New Zealand declined by an alarming 52.4%.\u003c/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eSimilarly, a study published in the journal Fertility and Sterility found that the percentage of men with sperm concentrations below the threshold for subfertility or infertility increased from 12.4% to 16.9% between 1989 and 2005.\u003c/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eIn women, the decline in fertility rates is equally alarming. According to a study published in the journal The Lancet, the global fertility rate fell from 2.37 live births per woman in 1990 to 1.70 live births per woman in 2017.\u003c/p\u003e\n\u003ch3 id=\"reasons-behind-the-decline-in-fertility-rates\"\u003eReasons Behind the Decline in Fertility Rates\u003c/h3\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eThere are several reasons behind the decline in fertility rates in both men and women. Let\u0026rsquo;s explore some of these reasons in detail:\u003c/p\u003e\n\u003col\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eEnvironmental Factors: Environmental factors such as exposure to chemicals, toxins, and pollutants have been linked to a decline in fertility rates in both men and women. For example, exposure to pesticides, bisphenol A (BPA), and phthalates have been linked to a decline in sperm count and quality in men. Similarly, exposure to chemicals such as PCBs, DDT, and dioxins has been linked to a decline in female fertility. In addition, exposure to environmental pollutants has been linked to an increased risk of miscarriage and birth defects.\u003c/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eLifestyle Factors: Lifestyle factors such as poor diet, lack of exercise, and stress have also been linked to a decline in fertility rates. For example, obesity has been linked to a decline in male fertility, while smoking and excessive alcohol consumption have been linked to a decline in both male and female fertility.\u003c/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eAge: Age is also a significant factor in the decline in fertility rates. As men and women age, their fertility declines. Women are born with a finite number of eggs, and as they age, the quality and quantity of their eggs decline, making it more challenging to conceive. Similarly, men\u0026rsquo;s sperm quality and quantity decline with age, increasing the risk of genetic abnormalities in their offspring.\u003c/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eMedical Conditions: Medical conditions such as polycystic ovary syndrome (PCOS), endometriosis, and male factor infertility have also been linked to a decline in fertility rates.\u003c/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eLow Testosterone: Are you aware that testosterone has been dipping by 1% every year since 1950. We are experiencing a population crisis, rampant deaths,\u003c/li\u003e\n\u003c/ol\u003e\n\u003ch3 id=\"addressing-the-decline-in-fertility-rates\"\u003eAddressing the Decline in Fertility Rates\u003c/h3\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eThere are several steps that can be taken to address the decline in fertility rates. Some of these steps include:\u003c/p\u003e\n\u003col\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eAddressing Environmental Factors: To address environmental factors, we need to reduce exposure to chemicals, toxins, and pollutants. This can be done by using organic products, reducing the use of pesticides, and avoiding plastic products that contain BPA and phthalates.\u003c/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eAdopting Healthy Lifestyles: Adopting a healthy lifestyle that includes a balanced diet, regular exercise, and stress management can help improve fertility rates. For example, eating a diet rich in fruits and vegetables and avoiding processed foods can improve both male and female fertility.\u003c/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eAddressing Medical Conditions: Seeking medical help for conditions such as PCOS, endometriosis, and male factor infertility can help improve fertility rates.\u003c/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eFertility Treatments: Fertility treatments such as in vitro fertilization (IVF), intrauterine insemination (IUI), and fertility drugs can help couples struggling with infertility conceive.\u003c/li\u003e\n\u003c/ol\u003e\n\u003ch3 id=\"specific-potential-solutions\"\u003eSpecific Potential Solutions\u003c/h3\u003e\n\u003ch4 id=\"for-women\"\u003eFor Women:\u003c/h4\u003e\n\u003col\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eMaintain a healthy weight: Women who are overweight or underweight may experience irregular periods and have difficulty conceiving.\u003c/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eQuit smoking: Smoking can damage reproductive organs and decrease fertility.\u003c/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eReduce alcohol intake: Excessive alcohol intake can lead to hormone imbalances and reduce fertility.\u003c/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eManage stress: High levels of stress can interfere with ovulation and menstrual cycles.\u003c/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eTake prenatal vitamins: Prenatal vitamins containing folic acid can help prevent birth defects and improve fertility.\u003c/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eGet enough sleep: Lack of sleep can cause hormonal imbalances and decrease fertility.\u003c/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eAddress underlying medical conditions: Conditions such as PCOS, endometriosis, and thyroid disorders can affect fertility and should be treated.\u003c/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eAvoid exposure to toxins: Exposure to chemicals, pesticides, and pollutants can affect fertility and harm the developing fetus.\u003c/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eConsider acupuncture or other alternative therapies: Acupuncture and other alternative therapies have been shown to improve fertility in some women.\u003c/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eConsult with a fertility specialist: A fertility specialist can help diagnose and treat underlying fertility issues.\u003c/li\u003e\n\u003c/ol\u003e\n\u003ch4 id=\"for-men\"\u003eFor Men:\u003c/h4\u003e\n\u003col\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eMaintain a healthy weight: Being overweight or underweight can affect sperm count and quality.\u003c/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eQuit smoking: Smoking can reduce sperm count and motility, and damage DNA.\u003c/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eReduce alcohol intake: Excessive alcohol intake can lower testosterone levels and decrease sperm production.\u003c/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eAvoid exposure to toxins: Exposure to chemicals, pesticides, and pollutants can affect sperm count and quality.\u003c/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eGet enough sleep: Lack of sleep can lead to hormonal imbalances and affect sperm production.\u003c/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eManage stress: High levels of stress can lead to decreased testosterone levels and affect sperm production.\u003c/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eEat a nutrient-dense diet and/or take supplements: Supplements such as Zinc, Boron, Magnesium, Vitamin E, Iodine, Calcium, Vitamin D, and Selenium have been shown to improve sperm count and quality.\u003c/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eAddress underlying medical conditions: Medical conditions such as diabetes, varicocele, and infections can affect fertility and should be treated.\u003c/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eWear loose-fitting underwear: Tight underwear can increase scrotal temperature and affect sperm production.\u003c/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eConsult with a fertility specialist: A fertility specialist can help diagnose and treat underlying fertility issues in men.\u003c/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eEat more meat and eggs: Testosterone is made from cholesterol. Up your cholesterol intake.\u003c/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eCut out seed oils: Most vegetable oils are bad for your health\u003c/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eGet in the sun!\u003c/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eLift weights or work out. Less cardio, more resistance training.\u003c/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eQuit porn\u003c/li\u003e\n\u003c/ol\u003e\n\u003ch2 id=\"conclusion\"\u003eConclusion\u003c/h2\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eThe decline in fertility rates in both men and women is an alarming phenomenon that needs to be addressed. While there are several factors behind this decline, such as environmental factors, lifestyle factors, age, and medical conditions, there are steps that can be taken to address this issue.\u003c/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eBy reducing exposure to chemicals and pollutants, adopting a healthy lifestyle, seeking medical help for underlying conditions, and using fertility treatments, couples struggling with infertility can improve their chances of conceiving. It is essential to address this issue as our reproductive health is vital for the continuation of our species.\u003c/p\u003e\n","date_published":"2023-02-24T08:05:00+03:00","image":"https://ajulu.netlify.app/images/photo-1515091110873-2a9680d5e323.jpeg","tags":["fertility","infertility","reproductive health","environmental","lifestyle","medical","men","women"]},{"id":"https://ajulu.netlify.app/posts/female-green-flags-for-men-interested-in-a-keeper/","url":"https://ajulu.netlify.app/posts/female-green-flags-for-men-interested-in-a-keeper/","title":"Green Flags For Men Interested In A Keeper","summary":"Hello there! How are you? With no second to waste let\u0026rsquo;s jump right in. But before that remember that you have to first put in work on yourself. Improve yourself first. Be worthy of seeking out these high-quality women.\nHas a good relationship with her father: I always say this, if she can\u0026rsquo;t respect her father what makes you think she will respect you? Does she speak highly of him? What does the family look like? If she has a good relationship with her father then that\u0026rsquo;s great. She\u0026rsquo;s nurturing. Does she take care of you when you are sick? She stays away from drama and gossip Doesn\u0026rsquo;t use social media frequently unless she\u0026rsquo;s using it for work/business She\u0026rsquo;s positive and cheerful about life She has a purpose that she\u0026rsquo;s pursuing but not a \u0026ldquo;boss-girl/boss-lady\u0026rdquo; She takes ownership of the choices/decisions in her life. She\u0026rsquo;s accountable. She\u0026rsquo;s good with money. She knows where to cut, save and invest. She doesn\u0026rsquo;t constantly ask for money for stupid stuff. She has a low body/notch count. Women who\u0026rsquo;ve been with 50, 60, 100+ guys can\u0026rsquo;t form a solid bond with a man. 50 is worse than 10, 10 is worse than 1. So focus on low body/notch count. She\u0026rsquo;s more likely to respect you and contribute to a relationship if she has a low body count. She\u0026rsquo;s pleasant and doesn\u0026rsquo;t nag you persistently She encourages you and supports your purpose She\u0026rsquo;s active and/or exercises. She\u0026rsquo;s good in the kitchen. She has to have culinary skills. Knows how to cook. She\u0026rsquo;s tidy, clean, and cleans/tidies up unprompted consistently She likes kids and treats them sweetly Doesn\u0026rsquo;t talk to multiple guys constantly She respects you and is willing to sacrifice certain things for the betterment of the relationship She\u0026rsquo;s submissive She brings solutions to your life, she\u0026rsquo;s a compliment in your life, is useful, and brings something to the table She\u0026rsquo;s collaborative ","content_html":"\u003cp\u003eHello there! How are you? With no second to waste let\u0026rsquo;s jump right in. But before that remember that you have to first put in work on yourself. Improve yourself first. Be worthy of seeking out these high-quality women.\u003c/p\u003e\n\u003col\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eHas a good relationship with her father: I always say this, if she can\u0026rsquo;t respect her father what makes you think she will respect you? Does she speak highly of him? What does the family look like? If she has a good relationship with her father then that\u0026rsquo;s great.\u003c/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eShe\u0026rsquo;s nurturing. Does she take care of you when you are sick?\u003c/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eShe stays away from drama and gossip\u003c/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eDoesn\u0026rsquo;t use social media frequently unless she\u0026rsquo;s using it for work/business\u003c/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eShe\u0026rsquo;s positive and cheerful about life\u003c/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eShe has a purpose that she\u0026rsquo;s pursuing but not a \u0026ldquo;boss-girl/boss-lady\u0026rdquo;\u003c/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eShe takes ownership of the choices/decisions in her life. She\u0026rsquo;s accountable.\u003c/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eShe\u0026rsquo;s good with money. She knows where to cut, save and invest. She doesn\u0026rsquo;t constantly ask for money for stupid stuff.\u003c/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eShe has a low body/notch count. Women who\u0026rsquo;ve been with 50, 60, 100+ guys can\u0026rsquo;t form a solid bond with a man. 50 is worse than 10, 10 is worse than 1. So focus on low body/notch count. She\u0026rsquo;s more likely to respect you and contribute to a relationship if she has a low body count.\u003c/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eShe\u0026rsquo;s pleasant and doesn\u0026rsquo;t nag you persistently\u003c/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eShe encourages you and supports your purpose\u003c/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eShe\u0026rsquo;s active and/or exercises.\u003c/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eShe\u0026rsquo;s good in the kitchen. She has to have culinary skills. Knows how to cook.\u003c/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eShe\u0026rsquo;s tidy, clean, and cleans/tidies up unprompted consistently\u003c/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eShe likes kids and treats them sweetly\u003c/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eDoesn\u0026rsquo;t talk to multiple guys constantly\u003c/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eShe respects you and is willing to sacrifice certain things for the betterment of the relationship\u003c/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eShe\u0026rsquo;s submissive\u003c/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eShe brings solutions to your life, she\u0026rsquo;s a compliment in your life, is useful, and brings something to the table\u003c/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eShe\u0026rsquo;s collaborative\u003c/li\u003e\n\u003c/ol\u003e\n","date_published":"2022-01-27T13:04:00+03:00","image":"https://ajulu.netlify.app/images/sasha-freemind-nxo2zskhthg-unsplash.jpg","tags":["dating","women","green flags"," red flags"]},{"id":"https://ajulu.netlify.app/posts/ladies-here-s-what-men-want/","url":"https://ajulu.netlify.app/posts/ladies-here-s-what-men-want/","title":"Ladies, Here's What Men Want and It's Surprisingly Simple","summary":" Physical Attraction - He must feel physically attracted to you. We first fall in love with what we see. And no I\u0026rsquo;m not suggesting you go for butt lifts and apply excessive makeup. Just do you, look good. If you are alone, show some skin. Do the old \u0026ldquo;picking up my scarf/handkerchief to show a bit of my ass\u0026rdquo; thing you used to do. LOSE WEIGHT! Unless he\u0026rsquo;s into Fat-BBW. But seriously lose weight. Look, ladies, I understand but it\u0026rsquo;s always better to improve than to make excuses and stay unhealthy. Can you say you are truly happy with that extra weight? If you are, fine but 9 times out of 10 you are not and you have been lying to yourself that it\u0026rsquo;s okay to be fat. But no it isn\u0026rsquo;t, being overweight predisposes you to so many health risks even childbirth complications. Every man I know wants a healthy wife with whom he can live a long life and have healthy kids who he can see grow up. I\u0026rsquo;m not body shaming you. Lose weight don\u0026rsquo;t make excuses. Choose growth over comfort. Just look good. You don\u0026rsquo;t need a fat ass to get a guy. Stay clean, look healthy, I hear there are exercises that give you hips? Try them. I mean why not? You\u0026rsquo;ll feel good, he\u0026rsquo;ll feel good, everyone wins right? Respect - Men naturally want to be respected especially by you. We want to dominate. To feel wanted - Don\u0026rsquo;t hesitate to show him how much you love and want him, especially sexually. Give him the \u0026ldquo;thirst gaze\u0026rdquo; sometimes. Just don\u0026rsquo;t be needy and clingy. There are plenty of ways you can do this without being insufferable. Loyalty - You know cheating hurts especially if you are truly committed. It hurts. So why put him through that for nothing. Just stay loyal or end the relationship. It\u0026rsquo;s not asking too much. Stop entertaining the countless men who constantly text you. \u0026ldquo;Curve them niggars\u0026rdquo;. Keep things minimal with that male \u0026ldquo;best\u0026rdquo; friend. Avoid going out with men even if they are your friends. I\u0026rsquo;ll tell you this for free, that male best friend + countless others definitely want to bang you. Without a doubt. So does almost every single male friend you have. Men and Women can\u0026rsquo;t be friends. It\u0026rsquo;s impossible. Unless the guys are effeminate, beta or gay. Support - Not monetary support unless he\u0026rsquo;s having financial difficulties. But you know, emotional, spiritual(Pray for him), and mental support. I mean at the end of a stressful day kind of support. Let him find food is ready, no quarrels, house clean, you looking good with a big smile on your face. Hug him. Ask him how his day went. It\u0026rsquo;s the little things that matter. Help him take his tie and socks off and serve him. Then \u0026ldquo;serve\u0026rdquo; him some more, if you know what I mean. Don\u0026rsquo;t be another challenge he has to conquer. Don\u0026rsquo;t be naggy. If there\u0026rsquo;s an issue, find an appropriate time, sit down with him and air it out like the civil adults you are. Don\u0026rsquo;t raise your voice. If he\u0026rsquo;s in a bad mood, schedule it for another time. Unless it\u0026rsquo;s urgent. Femininity - No man wants another \u0026ldquo;man\u0026rdquo; in his house unless he\u0026rsquo;s gay so stop with these \u0026ldquo;what a man can do, a woman can do better\u0026rdquo;, \u0026ldquo;I am the boss bitch\u0026rdquo; and \u0026ldquo;I am better than you\u0026rdquo; attitudes. Sure there are things you can do better but be humble about it. Be humble and submissive. This doesn\u0026rsquo;t make you less awesome, in fact being feminine and submissive is what will make him proud to have you. It\u0026rsquo;s a HUGE turn-on. Men love to be dominant. It\u0026rsquo;s the testosterone coursing through our veins. So don\u0026rsquo;t shy away from being feminine. Sometimes all a man needs is for you to be the type of woman God created you to be in the first place: A HELPER \u0026amp; SUPPORTER! Life is hard as it is. We constantly have to fight demons that sometimes even you aren\u0026rsquo;t aware of. Don\u0026rsquo;t spend his money unnecessarily. Don\u0026rsquo;t nag. Don\u0026rsquo;t cheat. Be his helper and cheerleader. In fact, I\u0026rsquo;d suggest you be wise. Telling him \u0026ldquo;Hey daddy, saw this amazing plot near the road, it has the potential to become worth something great\u0026rdquo;.\n","content_html":"\u003col\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\u003cstrong\u003ePhysical Attraction\u003c/strong\u003e - He must feel physically attracted to you. We first fall in love with what we see. And no I\u0026rsquo;m not suggesting you go for butt lifts and apply excessive makeup. Just do you, look good. If you are alone, show some skin. Do the old \u0026ldquo;picking up my scarf/handkerchief to show a bit of my ass\u0026rdquo; thing you used to do. LOSE WEIGHT! Unless he\u0026rsquo;s into Fat-BBW. But seriously lose weight. Look, ladies, I understand but it\u0026rsquo;s always better to improve than to make excuses and stay unhealthy. Can you say you are truly happy with that extra weight? If you are, fine but 9 times out of 10 you are not and you have been lying to yourself that it\u0026rsquo;s okay to be fat. But no it isn\u0026rsquo;t, being overweight predisposes you to so many health risks even childbirth complications. Every man I know wants a healthy wife with whom he can live a long life and have healthy kids who he can see grow up. I\u0026rsquo;m not body shaming you. Lose weight don\u0026rsquo;t make excuses. Choose growth over comfort. Just look good. You don\u0026rsquo;t need a fat ass to get a guy. Stay clean, look healthy, I hear there are exercises that give you hips? Try them. I mean why not? You\u0026rsquo;ll feel good, he\u0026rsquo;ll feel good, everyone wins right?\u003c/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eRespect\u003c/strong\u003e - Men naturally want to be respected especially by you. We want to dominate.\u003c/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eTo feel wanted\u003c/strong\u003e - Don\u0026rsquo;t hesitate to show him how much you love and want him, especially sexually. Give him the \u0026ldquo;thirst gaze\u0026rdquo; sometimes. Just don\u0026rsquo;t be needy and clingy. There are plenty of ways you can do this without being insufferable.\u003c/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eLoyalty\u003c/strong\u003e - You know cheating hurts especially if you are truly committed. It hurts. So why put him through that for nothing. Just stay loyal or end the relationship. It\u0026rsquo;s not asking too much. Stop entertaining the countless men who constantly text you. \u0026ldquo;Curve them niggars\u0026rdquo;. Keep things minimal with that male \u0026ldquo;best\u0026rdquo; friend. Avoid going out with men even if they are your friends. I\u0026rsquo;ll tell you this for free, that male best friend + countless others definitely want to bang you. Without a doubt. So does almost every single male friend you have. Men and Women can\u0026rsquo;t be friends. It\u0026rsquo;s impossible. Unless the guys are effeminate, beta or gay.\u003c/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eSupport\u003c/strong\u003e - Not monetary support unless he\u0026rsquo;s having financial difficulties. But you know, emotional, spiritual(Pray for him), and mental support. I mean at the end of a stressful day kind of support. Let him find food is ready, no quarrels, house clean, you looking good with a big smile on your face. Hug him. Ask him how his day went. It\u0026rsquo;s the little things that matter. Help him take his tie and socks off and serve him. Then \u0026ldquo;serve\u0026rdquo; him some more, if you know what I mean. Don\u0026rsquo;t be another challenge he has to conquer. Don\u0026rsquo;t be naggy. If there\u0026rsquo;s an issue, find an appropriate time, sit down with him and air it out like the civil adults you are. Don\u0026rsquo;t raise your voice. If he\u0026rsquo;s in a bad mood, schedule it for another time. Unless it\u0026rsquo;s urgent.\u003c/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eFemininity\u003c/strong\u003e - No man wants another \u0026ldquo;man\u0026rdquo; in his house unless he\u0026rsquo;s gay so stop with these \u0026ldquo;what a man can do, a woman can do better\u0026rdquo;, \u0026ldquo;I am the boss bitch\u0026rdquo; and \u0026ldquo;I am better than you\u0026rdquo; attitudes. Sure there are things you can do better but be humble about it. Be humble and submissive. This doesn\u0026rsquo;t make you less awesome, in fact being feminine and submissive is what will make him proud to have you. It\u0026rsquo;s a HUGE turn-on. Men love to be dominant. It\u0026rsquo;s the testosterone coursing through our veins. So don\u0026rsquo;t shy away from being feminine.\u003c/li\u003e\n\u003c/ol\u003e\n\u003ch4 id=\"sometimes-all-a-man-needs-is-for-you-to-be-the-type-of-woman-god-created-you-to-be-in-the-first-place-a-helper--supporter\"\u003eSometimes all a man needs is for you to be the type of woman God created you to be in the first place: A HELPER \u0026amp; SUPPORTER!\u003c/h4\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eLife is hard as it is. We constantly have to fight demons that sometimes even you aren\u0026rsquo;t aware of. Don\u0026rsquo;t spend his money unnecessarily. Don\u0026rsquo;t nag. Don\u0026rsquo;t cheat. Be his helper and cheerleader. In fact, I\u0026rsquo;d suggest you be wise. Telling him \u0026ldquo;Hey daddy, saw this amazing plot near the road, it has the potential to become worth something great\u0026rdquo;.\u003c/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eAnd no, most men don\u0026rsquo;t care too much about your degree or how much money you make unless you make more than him or he\u0026rsquo;s broke or he wants to use you.\u003c/p\u003e\n\u003ch4 id=\"they-just-want-a-beautiful-attractive-and-feminine-woman-who-can-cook-clean-support-and-have-good-sex-with-thats-really-it-and-sometimes-thats-enough-to-keep-a-man-happy-and-a-happy-man-is-a-faithful-and-committed-man\"\u003eThey just want a beautiful, attractive, and feminine woman who can cook, clean, support, and have good sex with. That\u0026rsquo;s really it and sometimes that\u0026rsquo;s enough to keep a man happy and a happy man is a faithful and committed man!\u003c/h4\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eStrive to be that good woman he can be proud of. Also about that cookie jar, please ration it. Don\u0026rsquo;t forget things wear and tear.\u003c/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eFinal note: There are some great men out there. You just have to rethink what you want and shift your focus. Don\u0026rsquo;t stay with an abusive man unless of course, you like the abuse(You BDSM loving ladies, you!). Don\u0026rsquo;t stay with a bad man either. Men only change for the right one! If he isn\u0026rsquo;t changing his ways, move on.\u003c/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eAnd kindly tell me your thoughts down below in the comments!\u003c/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eIf you feel insulted or triggered, I\u0026rsquo;d also like to hear from you too. Why are you triggered? What can remedy that? Are you sure you are speaking honestly?\u003c/p\u003e\n\u003ch4 id=\"remember-the-same-way-women-judge-men-based-on-height-fitness-and-financial-status-men-judge-women-based-on-health-problematic-scale-and-beauty\"\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eRemember\u003c/strong\u003e the same way, women judge men based on height, fitness, and financial status, men judge women based on health, problematic scale, and beauty.\u003c/h4\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eI\u0026rsquo;ll just randomly throw the word \u0026ldquo;double standards\u0026rdquo; here.\u003c/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eHave a great day ladies!\u003c/p\u003e\n","date_published":"2021-12-18T14:32:00+03:00","image":"https://ajulu.netlify.app/images/jd-mason-q9rqinia5ou-unsplash.jpg","tags":["dating","couple","what men want","men","women","couples","marriage","couple","ladies","gents","gentlemen","men of culture","man of culture","dating","courtship"]}]}