<rss version="2.0" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:wfw="http://wellformedweb.org/CommentAPI/" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" xmlns:sy="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/syndication/" xmlns:slash="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/slash/" xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/"><channel><title>Women on Stephen Ajulu</title><link>https://ajulu.netlify.app/tags/women/</link><atom:link href="https://ajulu.netlify.app/tags/women/feed.xml" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><description>Hello, I'm Stephen Ajulu, a seasoned multidisciplinary tech professional with over a decade of experience. I build impactful solutions using design, tech, and engineering in the pursuit of impact.</description><generator>Hugo -- gohugo.io</generator><language>en-us</language><managingEditor>ajulu.b22uf@aleeas.com (Stephen Ajulu)</managingEditor><webMaster>ajulu.b22uf@aleeas.com (Stephen Ajulu)</webMaster><copyright>Stephen Ajulu.</copyright><lastBuildDate>Fri, 24 Feb 2023 08:05:00 +0300</lastBuildDate><item><title>Shocking Truth Revealed: Why Fertility is Dropping at an Alarming Rate in</title><link>https://ajulu.netlify.app/posts/shocking-truth-revealed-why-fertility-is-dropping-at-an-alarming-rate-in-both-males-and-females/</link><pubDate>Fri, 24 Feb 2023 08:05:00 +0300</pubDate><guid>https://ajulu.netlify.app/posts/shocking-truth-revealed-why-fertility-is-dropping-at-an-alarming-rate-in-both-males-and-females/</guid><description>&lt;h2 id="how-and-why-fertility-is-dropping-at-an-alarming-rate-in-both-males-and-females-amongst-the-human-species"&gt;How and Why Fertility is Dropping At An Alarming Rate in Both Males and Females Amongst The Human Species&lt;/h2&gt;
&lt;p&gt;As human beings, we rely on our reproductive health to continue the legacy of our species. However, over the last few decades, there has been a worrying trend in the decline of fertility rates in both men and women. In this article, we will explore the reasons behind this alarming phenomenon and what can be done to address it.&lt;/p&gt;</description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<h2 id="how-and-why-fertility-is-dropping-at-an-alarming-rate-in-both-males-and-females-amongst-the-human-species">How and Why Fertility is Dropping At An Alarming Rate in Both Males and Females Amongst The Human Species</h2>
<p>As human beings, we rely on our reproductive health to continue the legacy of our species. However, over the last few decades, there has been a worrying trend in the decline of fertility rates in both men and women. In this article, we will explore the reasons behind this alarming phenomenon and what can be done to address it.</p>
<h3 id="understanding-fertility">Understanding Fertility</h3>
<p>Before we delve into the reasons behind the decline in fertility rates, let&rsquo;s first understand what fertility is. Fertility refers to a person&rsquo;s ability to conceive a child. In women, fertility is determined by the ovaries, which produce and release eggs. In men, fertility is determined by the testes, which produce and release sperm.</p>
<p>Fertility rates are determined by the number of live births per woman of reproductive age (usually between 15-49 years of age). According to the World Health Organization (WHO), a fertility rate of 2.1 is required to maintain a stable population.</p>
<h3 id="declining-fertility-rates">Declining Fertility Rates</h3>
<p>Over the last few decades, there has been a significant decline in fertility rates in both men and women. In fact, according to a study published in the journal Human Reproduction Update, between 1973 and 2011, sperm counts in men from North America, Europe, Australia, and New Zealand declined by an alarming 52.4%.</p>
<p>Similarly, a study published in the journal Fertility and Sterility found that the percentage of men with sperm concentrations below the threshold for subfertility or infertility increased from 12.4% to 16.9% between 1989 and 2005.</p>
<p>In women, the decline in fertility rates is equally alarming. According to a study published in the journal The Lancet, the global fertility rate fell from 2.37 live births per woman in 1990 to 1.70 live births per woman in 2017.</p>
<h3 id="reasons-behind-the-decline-in-fertility-rates">Reasons Behind the Decline in Fertility Rates</h3>
<p>There are several reasons behind the decline in fertility rates in both men and women. Let&rsquo;s explore some of these reasons in detail:</p>
<ol>
<li>Environmental Factors: Environmental factors such as exposure to chemicals, toxins, and pollutants have been linked to a decline in fertility rates in both men and women. For example, exposure to pesticides, bisphenol A (BPA), and phthalates have been linked to a decline in sperm count and quality in men. Similarly, exposure to chemicals such as PCBs, DDT, and dioxins has been linked to a decline in female fertility. In addition, exposure to environmental pollutants has been linked to an increased risk of miscarriage and birth defects.</li>
<li>Lifestyle Factors: Lifestyle factors such as poor diet, lack of exercise, and stress have also been linked to a decline in fertility rates. For example, obesity has been linked to a decline in male fertility, while smoking and excessive alcohol consumption have been linked to a decline in both male and female fertility.</li>
<li>Age: Age is also a significant factor in the decline in fertility rates. As men and women age, their fertility declines. Women are born with a finite number of eggs, and as they age, the quality and quantity of their eggs decline, making it more challenging to conceive. Similarly, men&rsquo;s sperm quality and quantity decline with age, increasing the risk of genetic abnormalities in their offspring.</li>
<li>Medical Conditions: Medical conditions such as polycystic ovary syndrome (PCOS), endometriosis, and male factor infertility have also been linked to a decline in fertility rates.</li>
<li>Low Testosterone: Are you aware that testosterone has been dipping by 1% every year since 1950. We are experiencing a population crisis, rampant deaths,</li>
</ol>
<h3 id="addressing-the-decline-in-fertility-rates">Addressing the Decline in Fertility Rates</h3>
<p>There are several steps that can be taken to address the decline in fertility rates. Some of these steps include:</p>
<ol>
<li>Addressing Environmental Factors: To address environmental factors, we need to reduce exposure to chemicals, toxins, and pollutants. This can be done by using organic products, reducing the use of pesticides, and avoiding plastic products that contain BPA and phthalates.</li>
<li>Adopting Healthy Lifestyles: Adopting a healthy lifestyle that includes a balanced diet, regular exercise, and stress management can help improve fertility rates. For example, eating a diet rich in fruits and vegetables and avoiding processed foods can improve both male and female fertility.</li>
<li>Addressing Medical Conditions: Seeking medical help for conditions such as PCOS, endometriosis, and male factor infertility can help improve fertility rates.</li>
<li>Fertility Treatments: Fertility treatments such as in vitro fertilization (IVF), intrauterine insemination (IUI), and fertility drugs can help couples struggling with infertility conceive.</li>
</ol>
<h3 id="specific-potential-solutions">Specific Potential Solutions</h3>
<h4 id="for-women">For Women:</h4>
<ol>
<li>Maintain a healthy weight: Women who are overweight or underweight may experience irregular periods and have difficulty conceiving.</li>
<li>Quit smoking: Smoking can damage reproductive organs and decrease fertility.</li>
<li>Reduce alcohol intake: Excessive alcohol intake can lead to hormone imbalances and reduce fertility.</li>
<li>Manage stress: High levels of stress can interfere with ovulation and menstrual cycles.</li>
<li>Take prenatal vitamins: Prenatal vitamins containing folic acid can help prevent birth defects and improve fertility.</li>
<li>Get enough sleep: Lack of sleep can cause hormonal imbalances and decrease fertility.</li>
<li>Address underlying medical conditions: Conditions such as PCOS, endometriosis, and thyroid disorders can affect fertility and should be treated.</li>
<li>Avoid exposure to toxins: Exposure to chemicals, pesticides, and pollutants can affect fertility and harm the developing fetus.</li>
<li>Consider acupuncture or other alternative therapies: Acupuncture and other alternative therapies have been shown to improve fertility in some women.</li>
<li>Consult with a fertility specialist: A fertility specialist can help diagnose and treat underlying fertility issues.</li>
</ol>
<h4 id="for-men">For Men:</h4>
<ol>
<li>Maintain a healthy weight: Being overweight or underweight can affect sperm count and quality.</li>
<li>Quit smoking: Smoking can reduce sperm count and motility, and damage DNA.</li>
<li>Reduce alcohol intake: Excessive alcohol intake can lower testosterone levels and decrease sperm production.</li>
<li>Avoid exposure to toxins: Exposure to chemicals, pesticides, and pollutants can affect sperm count and quality.</li>
<li>Get enough sleep: Lack of sleep can lead to hormonal imbalances and affect sperm production.</li>
<li>Manage stress: High levels of stress can lead to decreased testosterone levels and affect sperm production.</li>
<li>Eat a nutrient-dense diet and/or take supplements: Supplements such as Zinc, Boron, Magnesium, Vitamin E, Iodine, Calcium, Vitamin D, and Selenium have been shown to improve sperm count and quality.</li>
<li>Address underlying medical conditions: Medical conditions such as diabetes, varicocele, and infections can affect fertility and should be treated.</li>
<li>Wear loose-fitting underwear: Tight underwear can increase scrotal temperature and affect sperm production.</li>
<li>Consult with a fertility specialist: A fertility specialist can help diagnose and treat underlying fertility issues in men.</li>
<li>Eat more meat and eggs: Testosterone is made from cholesterol. Up your cholesterol intake.</li>
<li>Cut out seed oils: Most vegetable oils are bad for your health</li>
<li>Get in the sun!</li>
<li>Lift weights or work out. Less cardio, more resistance training.</li>
<li>Quit porn</li>
</ol>
<h2 id="conclusion">Conclusion</h2>
<p>The decline in fertility rates in both men and women is an alarming phenomenon that needs to be addressed. While there are several factors behind this decline, such as environmental factors, lifestyle factors, age, and medical conditions, there are steps that can be taken to address this issue.</p>
<p>By reducing exposure to chemicals and pollutants, adopting a healthy lifestyle, seeking medical help for underlying conditions, and using fertility treatments, couples struggling with infertility can improve their chances of conceiving. It is essential to address this issue as our reproductive health is vital for the continuation of our species.</p>
]]></content:encoded><media:content url="https://ajulu.netlify.app/images/photo-1515091110873-2a9680d5e323.jpeg" medium="image"/></item><item><title>Green Flags For Men Interested In A Keeper</title><link>https://ajulu.netlify.app/posts/female-green-flags-for-men-interested-in-a-keeper/</link><pubDate>Thu, 27 Jan 2022 13:04:00 +0300</pubDate><guid>https://ajulu.netlify.app/posts/female-green-flags-for-men-interested-in-a-keeper/</guid><description>&lt;p&gt;Hello there! How are you? With no second to waste let&amp;rsquo;s jump right in. But before that remember that you have to first put in work on yourself. Improve yourself first. Be worthy of seeking out these high-quality women.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;ol&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Has a good relationship with her father: I always say this, if she can&amp;rsquo;t respect her father what makes you think she will respect you? Does she speak highly of him? What does the family look like? If she has a good relationship with her father then that&amp;rsquo;s great.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;She&amp;rsquo;s nurturing. Does she take care of you when you are sick?&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;She stays away from drama and gossip&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Doesn&amp;rsquo;t use social media frequently unless she&amp;rsquo;s using it for work/business&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;She&amp;rsquo;s positive and cheerful about life&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;She has a purpose that she&amp;rsquo;s pursuing but not a &amp;ldquo;boss-girl/boss-lady&amp;rdquo;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;She takes ownership of the choices/decisions in her life. She&amp;rsquo;s accountable.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;She&amp;rsquo;s good with money. She knows where to cut, save and invest. She doesn&amp;rsquo;t constantly ask for money for stupid stuff.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;She has a low body/notch count. Women who&amp;rsquo;ve been with 50, 60, 100+ guys can&amp;rsquo;t form a solid bond with a man. 50 is worse than 10, 10 is worse than 1. So focus on low body/notch count. She&amp;rsquo;s more likely to respect you and contribute to a relationship if she has a low body count.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;She&amp;rsquo;s pleasant and doesn&amp;rsquo;t nag you persistently&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;She encourages you and supports your purpose&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;She&amp;rsquo;s active and/or exercises.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;She&amp;rsquo;s good in the kitchen. She has to have culinary skills. Knows how to cook.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;She&amp;rsquo;s tidy, clean, and cleans/tidies up unprompted consistently&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;She likes kids and treats them sweetly&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Doesn&amp;rsquo;t talk to multiple guys constantly&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;She respects you and is willing to sacrifice certain things for the betterment of the relationship&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;She&amp;rsquo;s submissive&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;She brings solutions to your life, she&amp;rsquo;s a compliment in your life, is useful, and brings something to the table&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;She&amp;rsquo;s collaborative&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ol&gt;</description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hello there! How are you? With no second to waste let&rsquo;s jump right in. But before that remember that you have to first put in work on yourself. Improve yourself first. Be worthy of seeking out these high-quality women.</p>
<ol>
<li>Has a good relationship with her father: I always say this, if she can&rsquo;t respect her father what makes you think she will respect you? Does she speak highly of him? What does the family look like? If she has a good relationship with her father then that&rsquo;s great.</li>
<li>She&rsquo;s nurturing. Does she take care of you when you are sick?</li>
<li>She stays away from drama and gossip</li>
<li>Doesn&rsquo;t use social media frequently unless she&rsquo;s using it for work/business</li>
<li>She&rsquo;s positive and cheerful about life</li>
<li>She has a purpose that she&rsquo;s pursuing but not a &ldquo;boss-girl/boss-lady&rdquo;</li>
<li>She takes ownership of the choices/decisions in her life. She&rsquo;s accountable.</li>
<li>She&rsquo;s good with money. She knows where to cut, save and invest. She doesn&rsquo;t constantly ask for money for stupid stuff.</li>
<li>She has a low body/notch count. Women who&rsquo;ve been with 50, 60, 100+ guys can&rsquo;t form a solid bond with a man. 50 is worse than 10, 10 is worse than 1. So focus on low body/notch count. She&rsquo;s more likely to respect you and contribute to a relationship if she has a low body count.</li>
<li>She&rsquo;s pleasant and doesn&rsquo;t nag you persistently</li>
<li>She encourages you and supports your purpose</li>
<li>She&rsquo;s active and/or exercises.</li>
<li>She&rsquo;s good in the kitchen. She has to have culinary skills. Knows how to cook.</li>
<li>She&rsquo;s tidy, clean, and cleans/tidies up unprompted consistently</li>
<li>She likes kids and treats them sweetly</li>
<li>Doesn&rsquo;t talk to multiple guys constantly</li>
<li>She respects you and is willing to sacrifice certain things for the betterment of the relationship</li>
<li>She&rsquo;s submissive</li>
<li>She brings solutions to your life, she&rsquo;s a compliment in your life, is useful, and brings something to the table</li>
<li>She&rsquo;s collaborative</li>
</ol>
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&lt;li&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Physical Attraction&lt;/strong&gt; - He must feel physically attracted to you. We first fall in love with what we see. And no I&amp;rsquo;m not suggesting you go for butt lifts and apply excessive makeup. Just do you, look good. If you are alone, show some skin. Do the old &amp;ldquo;picking up my scarf/handkerchief to show a bit of my ass&amp;rdquo; thing you used to do. LOSE WEIGHT! Unless he&amp;rsquo;s into Fat-BBW. But seriously lose weight. Look, ladies, I understand but it&amp;rsquo;s always better to improve than to make excuses and stay unhealthy. Can you say you are truly happy with that extra weight? If you are, fine but 9 times out of 10 you are not and you have been lying to yourself that it&amp;rsquo;s okay to be fat. But no it isn&amp;rsquo;t, being overweight predisposes you to so many health risks even childbirth complications. Every man I know wants a healthy wife with whom he can live a long life and have healthy kids who he can see grow up. I&amp;rsquo;m not body shaming you. Lose weight don&amp;rsquo;t make excuses. Choose growth over comfort. Just look good. You don&amp;rsquo;t need a fat ass to get a guy. Stay clean, look healthy, I hear there are exercises that give you hips? Try them. I mean why not? You&amp;rsquo;ll feel good, he&amp;rsquo;ll feel good, everyone wins right?&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Respect&lt;/strong&gt; - Men naturally want to be respected especially by you. We want to dominate.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;strong&gt;To feel wanted&lt;/strong&gt; - Don&amp;rsquo;t hesitate to show him how much you love and want him, especially sexually. Give him the &amp;ldquo;thirst gaze&amp;rdquo; sometimes. Just don&amp;rsquo;t be needy and clingy. There are plenty of ways you can do this without being insufferable.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Loyalty&lt;/strong&gt; - You know cheating hurts especially if you are truly committed. It hurts. So why put him through that for nothing. Just stay loyal or end the relationship. It&amp;rsquo;s not asking too much. Stop entertaining the countless men who constantly text you. &amp;ldquo;Curve them niggars&amp;rdquo;. Keep things minimal with that male &amp;ldquo;best&amp;rdquo; friend. Avoid going out with men even if they are your friends. I&amp;rsquo;ll tell you this for free, that male best friend + countless others definitely want to bang you. Without a doubt. So does almost every single male friend you have. Men and Women can&amp;rsquo;t be friends. It&amp;rsquo;s impossible. Unless the guys are effeminate, beta or gay.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Support&lt;/strong&gt; - Not monetary support unless he&amp;rsquo;s having financial difficulties. But you know, emotional, spiritual(Pray for him), and mental support. I mean at the end of a stressful day kind of support. Let him find food is ready, no quarrels, house clean, you looking good with a big smile on your face. Hug him. Ask him how his day went. It&amp;rsquo;s the little things that matter. Help him take his tie and socks off and serve him. Then &amp;ldquo;serve&amp;rdquo; him some more, if you know what I mean. Don&amp;rsquo;t be another challenge he has to conquer. Don&amp;rsquo;t be naggy. If there&amp;rsquo;s an issue, find an appropriate time, sit down with him and air it out like the civil adults you are. Don&amp;rsquo;t raise your voice. If he&amp;rsquo;s in a bad mood, schedule it for another time. Unless it&amp;rsquo;s urgent.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Femininity&lt;/strong&gt; - No man wants another &amp;ldquo;man&amp;rdquo; in his house unless he&amp;rsquo;s gay so stop with these &amp;ldquo;what a man can do, a woman can do better&amp;rdquo;, &amp;ldquo;I am the boss bitch&amp;rdquo; and &amp;ldquo;I am better than you&amp;rdquo; attitudes. Sure there are things you can do better but be humble about it. Be humble and submissive. This doesn&amp;rsquo;t make you less awesome, in fact being feminine and submissive is what will make him proud to have you. It&amp;rsquo;s a HUGE turn-on. Men love to be dominant. It&amp;rsquo;s the testosterone coursing through our veins. So don&amp;rsquo;t shy away from being feminine.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ol&gt;
&lt;h4 id="sometimes-all-a-man-needs-is-for-you-to-be-the-type-of-woman-god-created-you-to-be-in-the-first-place-a-helper--supporter"&gt;Sometimes all a man needs is for you to be the type of woman God created you to be in the first place: A HELPER &amp;amp; SUPPORTER!&lt;/h4&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Life is hard as it is. We constantly have to fight demons that sometimes even you aren&amp;rsquo;t aware of. Don&amp;rsquo;t spend his money unnecessarily. Don&amp;rsquo;t nag. Don&amp;rsquo;t cheat. Be his helper and cheerleader. In fact, I&amp;rsquo;d suggest you be wise. Telling him &amp;ldquo;Hey daddy, saw this amazing plot near the road, it has the potential to become worth something great&amp;rdquo;.&lt;/p&gt;</description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<ol>
<li><strong>Physical Attraction</strong> - He must feel physically attracted to you. We first fall in love with what we see. And no I&rsquo;m not suggesting you go for butt lifts and apply excessive makeup. Just do you, look good. If you are alone, show some skin. Do the old &ldquo;picking up my scarf/handkerchief to show a bit of my ass&rdquo; thing you used to do. LOSE WEIGHT! Unless he&rsquo;s into Fat-BBW. But seriously lose weight. Look, ladies, I understand but it&rsquo;s always better to improve than to make excuses and stay unhealthy. Can you say you are truly happy with that extra weight? If you are, fine but 9 times out of 10 you are not and you have been lying to yourself that it&rsquo;s okay to be fat. But no it isn&rsquo;t, being overweight predisposes you to so many health risks even childbirth complications. Every man I know wants a healthy wife with whom he can live a long life and have healthy kids who he can see grow up. I&rsquo;m not body shaming you. Lose weight don&rsquo;t make excuses. Choose growth over comfort. Just look good. You don&rsquo;t need a fat ass to get a guy. Stay clean, look healthy, I hear there are exercises that give you hips? Try them. I mean why not? You&rsquo;ll feel good, he&rsquo;ll feel good, everyone wins right?</li>
<li><strong>Respect</strong> - Men naturally want to be respected especially by you. We want to dominate.</li>
<li><strong>To feel wanted</strong> - Don&rsquo;t hesitate to show him how much you love and want him, especially sexually. Give him the &ldquo;thirst gaze&rdquo; sometimes. Just don&rsquo;t be needy and clingy. There are plenty of ways you can do this without being insufferable.</li>
<li><strong>Loyalty</strong> - You know cheating hurts especially if you are truly committed. It hurts. So why put him through that for nothing. Just stay loyal or end the relationship. It&rsquo;s not asking too much. Stop entertaining the countless men who constantly text you. &ldquo;Curve them niggars&rdquo;. Keep things minimal with that male &ldquo;best&rdquo; friend. Avoid going out with men even if they are your friends. I&rsquo;ll tell you this for free, that male best friend + countless others definitely want to bang you. Without a doubt. So does almost every single male friend you have. Men and Women can&rsquo;t be friends. It&rsquo;s impossible. Unless the guys are effeminate, beta or gay.</li>
<li><strong>Support</strong> - Not monetary support unless he&rsquo;s having financial difficulties. But you know, emotional, spiritual(Pray for him), and mental support. I mean at the end of a stressful day kind of support. Let him find food is ready, no quarrels, house clean, you looking good with a big smile on your face. Hug him. Ask him how his day went. It&rsquo;s the little things that matter. Help him take his tie and socks off and serve him. Then &ldquo;serve&rdquo; him some more, if you know what I mean. Don&rsquo;t be another challenge he has to conquer. Don&rsquo;t be naggy. If there&rsquo;s an issue, find an appropriate time, sit down with him and air it out like the civil adults you are. Don&rsquo;t raise your voice. If he&rsquo;s in a bad mood, schedule it for another time. Unless it&rsquo;s urgent.</li>
<li><strong>Femininity</strong> - No man wants another &ldquo;man&rdquo; in his house unless he&rsquo;s gay so stop with these &ldquo;what a man can do, a woman can do better&rdquo;, &ldquo;I am the boss bitch&rdquo; and &ldquo;I am better than you&rdquo; attitudes. Sure there are things you can do better but be humble about it. Be humble and submissive. This doesn&rsquo;t make you less awesome, in fact being feminine and submissive is what will make him proud to have you. It&rsquo;s a HUGE turn-on. Men love to be dominant. It&rsquo;s the testosterone coursing through our veins. So don&rsquo;t shy away from being feminine.</li>
</ol>
<h4 id="sometimes-all-a-man-needs-is-for-you-to-be-the-type-of-woman-god-created-you-to-be-in-the-first-place-a-helper--supporter">Sometimes all a man needs is for you to be the type of woman God created you to be in the first place: A HELPER &amp; SUPPORTER!</h4>
<p>Life is hard as it is. We constantly have to fight demons that sometimes even you aren&rsquo;t aware of. Don&rsquo;t spend his money unnecessarily. Don&rsquo;t nag. Don&rsquo;t cheat. Be his helper and cheerleader. In fact, I&rsquo;d suggest you be wise. Telling him &ldquo;Hey daddy, saw this amazing plot near the road, it has the potential to become worth something great&rdquo;.</p>
<p>And no, most men don&rsquo;t care too much about your degree or how much money you make unless you make more than him or he&rsquo;s broke or he wants to use you.</p>
<h4 id="they-just-want-a-beautiful-attractive-and-feminine-woman-who-can-cook-clean-support-and-have-good-sex-with-thats-really-it-and-sometimes-thats-enough-to-keep-a-man-happy-and-a-happy-man-is-a-faithful-and-committed-man">They just want a beautiful, attractive, and feminine woman who can cook, clean, support, and have good sex with. That&rsquo;s really it and sometimes that&rsquo;s enough to keep a man happy and a happy man is a faithful and committed man!</h4>
<p>Strive to be that good woman he can be proud of. Also about that cookie jar, please ration it. Don&rsquo;t forget things wear and tear.</p>
<p>Final note: There are some great men out there. You just have to rethink what you want and shift your focus. Don&rsquo;t stay with an abusive man unless of course, you like the abuse(You BDSM loving ladies, you!). Don&rsquo;t stay with a bad man either. Men only change for the right one! If he isn&rsquo;t changing his ways, move on.</p>
<p>And kindly tell me your thoughts down below in the comments!</p>
<p>If you feel insulted or triggered, I&rsquo;d also like to hear from you too. Why are you triggered? What can remedy that? Are you sure you are speaking honestly?</p>
<h4 id="remember-the-same-way-women-judge-men-based-on-height-fitness-and-financial-status-men-judge-women-based-on-health-problematic-scale-and-beauty"><strong>Remember</strong> the same way, women judge men based on height, fitness, and financial status, men judge women based on health, problematic scale, and beauty.</h4>
<p>I&rsquo;ll just randomly throw the word &ldquo;double standards&rdquo; here.</p>
<p>Have a great day ladies!</p>
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